Anyone who has known me for more than about 30 seconds knows my passion for serving the single-parent family. The desire to see no single parent walking alone – to see the body of Christ working fervently to reach single parents for Christ’s cause – keeps me up at night. I have big dreams of seeing that every church, regardless of size, start a single parent ministry and outreach program. Having said all that, I think it is extremely important that single moms learn to serve others, as well.
I have often said that I do not believe that your work saves you, Christ does, but I do believe that those who are saved, work! When we have accepted the Lord as our Savior, not because of anything we could ever do, but because of everything He’s done, our life is forever changed. Our heart has been transformed from the inside out. That change should prompt us to think of others first and self last. It should motivate us to serve others, thereby showing others the love of Christ through selfless acts. I do not think single parents are any exception.
Through my years of ministry, people have said some pretty crazy things to me, many of which don’t bear repeating. But one of the things I have heard more than once is that nonprofits that cater to single-parent families may foster a victim mentality or create some sense of entitlement. My response is to smile and politely explain that our organization is passionate about just the opposite! Make no mistake. We are passionate about serving single mothers, but also teaching them to serve others. We are passionate about eradicating any victim mentality and teaching that a Christ-follower is no victim, but rather a victor. We are passionate about fostering a sense of responsibility, hard work, and strong work ethic.
So, what are some things that single moms can do to serve others? Maybe you are reading and you are a mom who really has a heart to serve, but
you are financially strapped and limited on time, so feel there is little you can do. Here are a few ideas:
- Throw a meal in the Crockpot for a family in need. (There are many dishes you can make for under $10).
- Bake a dozen cookies for a local fire department. Two dozen cookies cost under $3 at most grocery stores and bake in 8 minutes. What a great way to get your kids involved.
- Write “thank you” cards to our military or service personnel.
- Call a fellow single mom and invite her over for dinner.
- Babysit a friend’s children one weekend.
- Pool resources with other single moms in the area and host a pot-luck meal.
- Commit to calling one fellow single parent, per week, to check on them and pray for them.
- Take the time to mail a handwritten letter to a family member, old friend, or former teacher who has meant a lot to you. Take time to share fond memories you have about them.
- Host a single mom’s Bible study.
- Host a game night and have everyone bring a snack.
The list is endless. When we become servant-minded, God floods us with creativity on how to serve others. One of my favorite service projects was when we took a group of single moms and their children to a local nursing home and had a morning-of-fun with the residents. We sang songs, painted fingernails, served donuts, and made crafts. It was more than a year ago now, and I still smile every time I think of it.
Jennifer Maggio is an award-winning author of four books and the CEO/Founder of The Life of a Single Mom Ministries. She is also the founder of Overwhelmed: The Single Moms Magazine and a regular on radio and television. For more information, visit www.Jennifermaggio.com.
The Life of a single Mom is a national, faith-based, nonprofit that exists to see that no single mom walks alone. Our primary focus is in helping churches and communities launch single mom’s ministries and have done so more than 1,500 times! Our support groups connect 71,000 single mothers each year to a local church. We are a one-stop shop for all things single mom ministry related. For more information, visit https://thelifeofasinglemom.com