Single Moms Ministry — The Tough Questions Answered

With a growing number of churches within the body of Christ embracing the need to minister to single parents as a rapidly-growing demographic across the United States, many questions have arisen (along with a little confusion) regarding the topic. We’d like to address some of the many questions that we address on a regular basis:

Doesn’t single moms ministry support divorce, unwed pregnancy, or unbiblical behavior? No. As the body of Christ, we should continue to teach sexual purity and forever-marriage, but … the reality is that we all have fallen short of God’s glory. And while some single mothers exist through no fault of their own, some have also made mistakes. Regardless of their arrival to the journey, they are here. And we cannot ignore the need to minister and encourage them. Just as drug addiction programs don’t support drug use, but simply  meet people where they are, The Life of a Single Mom Ministries is seeking to teach the church to meet people where they are.

Why are you only promoting single moms ministry versus single dads ministries or single parents ministries? We recognize that both single moms and dads exist, either as co-parents or sole custodians. We have great compassion for those dads that are single parents, too. However, statistics continue to support more than more than 80% of single parents in our country are women, which represent the greatest need. Therefore, our focus is primarily on single mothers. Additionally, if a church sees a number of single dads who need support, we are supportive of opening a separate group for dads. The reality is that men fellowship differently, which is why mens’ ministry looks different. What we want to avoid is having a co-ed environment where single mothers move into a new relationship too soon or avoid the ministry altogether because they are concerned about being with the opposite sex during a difficult time in their lives. There is no right or wrong in this area. We honor the church’s decision to do single moms’ ministry, single dads’ ministry, or single parents’ ministry. We are sharing what we’ve found to be best practices.

For more statistics and information on why the church should be involved in single moms’ ministry, check out this book!

Single moms’ ministries just create division and further separate single moms, doesn’t it? No. Single Moms Ministries do not divide the church any more than Ladies Nights or Womens’ Ministries or Youth Ministries or Widows Ministries separate! We want single moms to be part of various groups at the church — singles, women’s ministry, volunteer opportunities, etc. But whether a single mom has been parenting alone for a few months or for years, the journey is different than dual parenting, and the journey can be lonely. Single moms support groups allow for deep fellowship, the sharing of ideas, and encouragement for a journey that is unique. These ministries simply allow another opportunity for fellowship with people who are in similar seasons of life.

One of the things I have heard you promote is that single moms’ groups support church growth. That doesn’t seem like a very good reason to launch one! Our sole mission as the body of Christ is to populate Heaven and plunder Hell! Our goal is to see souls transformed by the blood of Jesus. There are more than 9 million single mothers that are unchurched in the United States, and many, many are unsaved. Yes, it grows the church, because these women now have a place where they feel they belong. This may very well be the way that the unreached, unchurched single mom in your community comes to Christ. More opportunities equals a greater chance to share the plan of salvation. If a church leader needs to hear that it will grow the church in order for him to get on board, then so be it. It is a bold and grand idea that we, the church, actually be excited about growing the church.

The Life of a Single MomThe Life of a Single Mom is a national, faith-based, nonprofit that is one of the nation’s largest single-mom centric organizations. We focus on equipping churches and communities on how to reach single mothers, establish ministry plans, and grow existing single moms’ programs. We provide curriculum, training, host events, and offer a wide array of single mom products and services to ensure that no single mom walks alone. Currently, we are serving 72,000+ single mothers each year. For more information, visit


2018-06-11T14:03:47+00:00September 25th, 2012|Help For Ministry Leaders|9 Comments


  1. Chezney Cleaver October 28, 2012 at 8:15 pm - Reply

    My mom asked me to search for your book online and as I was doing so I became interested being that I am a single mother myself. I would like to know how to start a home group because I don’t have a church home right now. I have a few friends and family members who would greatly benefit from these books and resources. Thanks for sharing your vision.

    • Jennifer Maggio November 26, 2012 at 7:05 pm - Reply

      Chezney, you can get a home group started at any time. We recommend going thru a local church, as they can provide great support, prayer, and sometimes, even financial assistance and volunteer recruitment. You’ll find that having the “covering” of a local church will make it easier for you to grow, stay organized, and have strength to continue long-term with the group. The Church and the Single Mom book (available for purchase on our site) is a great place to start. In the meantime, visit some of your local churches and begin to get planted in a local church. It truly is the heart of the Father to have each of us connected and worshiping in a local church.

  2. Elenna March 22, 2013 at 6:48 pm - Reply

    I’m thinking of meeting more regularly/consistently with my single mom friends, and suggesting doing something more purposeful with our time together. We attend the same church and Bible studies, and our kids are older teens and/or in college. Three out of four of us have been raising our kids alone since they were very small due to widowhood or divorce. What resources would you recommend for us, since our kids are almost grown? We’re still guiding them into adulthood, and most of them are still living at home with us. We’re all nearing the days when we can successfully launch them into their own lives, and yet feeling some grief that our mother years will soon be over and we’ll really be alone! Thank you for any advice you can provide.

    • Jennifer Maggio March 23, 2013 at 12:49 pm - Reply

      Definitely take a look at both Overwhelmed: The Life of a Single Mom and Kids and the Single Mom. Overwhelmed is a comprehensive look at several of the issues that single parents deal with in all diff’t stages of their journey. Kids and the Single Mom is written for mothers with children of all different ages, but since I am currently parenting 2 teenagers (one who is almost 18), then it definitely has an angle that you would benefit from. I recommend ordering one copy of both. Then, if you like it, have the others get one! (All are available for purchase on our site). ~ Jennifer Maggio

  3. Elenna March 25, 2013 at 4:04 pm - Reply

    Thank you, Jennifer, I’ll check those two out. “Overwhelmed” is an apt title! Thank you for your ministry.


  4. Raquel Rose Kato May 29, 2013 at 10:51 pm - Reply

    Love this ministry…just discovered it from embrace grace! I think I may need to start a single mom group, I go to a mom’s group myself, but everyone there is married, and they just don’t have the same struggles as I do as a single mom…but I don’t even know where to start.

    • Jennifer Maggio May 30, 2013 at 6:11 pm - Reply

      Thanks so much Raquel! Glad you found us. Yes, definitely consider starting a ministry. So many are needed. Visit our “Starting a Single Moms Ministry” page at and be sure you also sign up for our monthly newsletter on our site.

  5. Agnes September 10, 2014 at 6:28 pm - Reply

    How can I find out additional information bout your ministry in my local area ? I live in San Antonio, TX and need help and guidance. Love your sister in Christ, Agnes.

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