One-Time Events for Single Parents Are Not Enough

With an estimated 15 million single mothers in the United States and numbers increasing daily, it is imperative that the local church have a thriving single mothers program. A one-time Mother’s Day Banquet or annual Single Moms Oil Change isn’t enough to ensure that single mothers’ are discipled long-term. They simply don’t tend to connect after the event, unless there is a thriving single moms’ ministry program present. Those one-time events are great programs, but single moms desire long-term Bible studies, discipleship, and support groups that address the unique challenges they face, including parenting advice, financial planning, and overall emotional and spiritual support from their peers.

For more staggering statistics on the national single parenting epidemic, get The Church and the Single Mom.

It is estimated that 67% of single mothers do not actively attend church.  As the church – the body of Christ – this should pain us. It should keep us up at night. Many single mothers do not feel they belong in the house of God. They fear that they will be judged. They are concerned that others will not understand their journey or that the church won’t see them as a viable part of the church family. They fear they don’t fit in anywhere. It is important that we understand that single mothers, like all of us, desire genuine connection and fellowship with those who best understand our situation. We all want to know that someone has walked the path we are currently on, and not only survived, but thrived.

So, why should we formalize a single moms’ ministry within the walls of our church?

The Bible tells us so. We have been commissioned with certain duties by the Lord. Psalms 146:9 informs us “He cares for the widows and orphans.” Luke 14:13 challenges us to “invite the poor.”  1 Timothy 5:3 advises us to “take care of the widow.” The widow, many times, is the single mom. The orphans are left by a single mom. The poor are often single moms.

Single parents are one of the fastest-growing sects of our population. What better way for our local churches to grow than to conect with the 9 million unchurched single mothers in the country? This respresents more than 20 million women and children and they are in our neighborhoods, grocery stores, and schools.

Single moms need more than just a Christimas toy drive once per year for her children. They appreciate that sort of thing, but she desires sustained connection with the house of God. She longs to learn more about financial stewardship and parenting effectively. She needs long-term fellowship with other single mothers in similar seasons of life. She wants to know that she is not alone.

A single moms’ ministry is NOT the same thing as a singles ministry. Singles ministries are co-ed environments. Many single mothers are recently divorced or vulnerable and need a private support group for women only. This allows the freedom to express concerns and hardships sans the added pressure of the opposite sex.

And perhaps the most important point – single moms ministries DO NOT condone unwed pregnancy or divorce no more than addictions’ ministry condones drug use. We know God’s word calls us to live in sexual purity and that marriage was intended to last forever. We know that and embrace that, as believers. However, we cannot ignore that there are millions of single parent families that exist today. We must address the needs of those within our community who find themselves parenting alone.

Start a single moms ministry today.

Our mission on this earth, as Christians, is to populate Heaven and plunder Hell. We are to seek out the marginalized, hurting, broken, and poor. We are looking for those who do not know the love of the Father that we know. They do not know the Jesus that forgives all sin, erases all record of wrong, and loves unconditionally.

The Life of a Single MomThe Life of a Single Mom is a national, faith-based, nonprofit that is one of the nation’s largest single-mom centric organizations. We focus on equipping churches and communities on how to reach single mothers, establish ministry plans, and grow existing single moms’ programs. We provide curriculum, training, host events, and offer a wide array of single mom products and services to ensure that no single mom walks alone. Currently, we are serving 72,000+ single mothers each year. For more information, visit

2018-06-11T16:22:03+00:00June 26th, 2013|Help For Ministry Leaders|4 Comments


  1. Iteesha Rodriguez August 7, 2013 at 3:21 pm - Reply

    Good morning I will be starting a single moms group at my church can any one tell me of any free material on starting a group and good topics to start on. I also had to come up with a name for our group I was thinking of calling it journey any thoughts .

    • TLSMSTAFF August 7, 2013 at 5:09 pm - Reply

      Hi Iteesha, we have emailed you some info to your email address. Please ck your inbox or “spam” file and email us with questions. Thanks for stopping by our site. Our goal is to be the go-to resource for all things single parent ministry related.

      • maryanna September 1, 2015 at 9:25 am - Reply

        I would like to receive the free materials regarding a single moms’ ministry. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you.

        • TLSMSTAFF September 2, 2015 at 7:14 am - Reply

          Hi Maryanna, we have a large number of free materials available on our site at You can click on the “For Churches” tab on our site. There is also a “Ministry Leaders Corner” that offers free articles on How-To’s for Single Parent Ministry. Also visit the “Videos” and “Podcasts” tabs, as they, too, offer free encouragement and advice. Sign up for our free monthly newsletter. The website is a wealth of knowledge. Blessings.

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