Single Mothers, perhaps, is the most recognized form of non-traditional families, with only one parent typically a female. The demographic of a single mother has altered over decades and is no longer being identified only as “divorced” families or “unplanned” pregnancy, but delves even deeper, such as a single mother by choice, crisis situations, or foster parenting.  Today in the U. S., around 13.7 million single parents in the United States, and 84% of them are mothers. (US Census).

As we are all aware, single mothers are not the topic in the community news, church bulletin, and employee lounge or in many cases right in your own family. We are considered not the “norm” for traditional families (two parents, 2.5 children, minivan and a dog.) We are not always invited into group discussions about planned family vacations, dinner plans, family gatherings, play dates and education. Non-Traditional Families doesn’t fit the typical cookie cutter pattern, but we have our own unique mold.

Non-Traditional Families deal with various media attacks on our children.  We are constantly told that fatherless children will suffer from emotional, psychological and developmental problems that could lead them into a life of violence and destruction.

  • 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
  • 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
  • 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average.  (Center for Disease Control)
  • 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average.  (National Principals Association Report)

As Non-Traditional Families, we have to get a handle on being a single mother and how it can affect our children, if GOD is missing in our homes. It is easy to believe the statistics, if we focus only on the circumstances that brought us to this place. We cannot allow our choices (or lack thereof), to dictate our children’s future. Let’s not create a pitfall with a broken ladder. Let’s create futures with a solid foundation built on the word of God.

Non-Traditional Families are uniquely designed with unique needs that are distinct to each household.  We require unique services and resources, but we deserve the same opportunities, acceptance, appreciation and platforms that are given to traditional families. Welcome to my Non-Traditional Family lifestyle.


For more staggering statistics on the national single parenting epidemic, get The Church and the Single Mom HERE.

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The Life of a Single Mom is a national, faith-based, nonprofit that exists to see that no single mom walks alone. To date, we have worked with more than 1,500 churches & community groups to start or improve a single mom’s support group in cities throughout the U.S. and beyond. We have a large array of books, curriculum, training materials, and online instructional videos to support ministry leaders who lead single moms. Our single mom programs focus on empowering single moms to grow spiritually, emotionally, financially, and parentally through a number of projects including: Single Mom University, Single Moms Across America, the National TLSM Single Moms Conference, and a variety of programs throughout the U.S. For more information, visit