Emotionally Open by Dr. Sheika Square

I do not think I have ever had a good boyfriend! That’s pretty sad to say, huh?  A few liars…yes! Some cheaters…those too! Abusers…definitelyHowever, a great guy, that loved me for me… I don’t remember that. Even as I write those words, I think it’s sad to say.

I have had a propensity of dating men that needed to use me in an effort to feel better about themselves. I have dated the guy that married the girl that he cheated with (wait… that happened twice). I have dated the guy that professed his loved for me, after he hit me. I have dated the guy that left for 8 years and then came back to me, as I raised our 9 year old child (alone), wanting me to act like the abandonment never happened. I have dated them all.

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What I realized, however, was that I had a propensity for this. I had the tendency to date boys. I had allowed this to come into my life. These boys were emotionally and sometimes mentally broken. I did this! I engaged in every moment. I pushed pass every desire to leave. I stayed! I had to take responsibility for the role I played in allowing this to happen in my life, as well as the life of my precious child.

I also realized, that I had a Divine purpose – a purpose, that once fulfilled –  will outweigh every broken promise, every tear that has fallen, and every time my heart broke open.

When I realized who I was, my propensity for the nonsense stopped. I am now at peace. I learned to forgive myself from my past mistakes and am moving into forgiving those around me who have hurt me.  I learned that I am more than the nonsense, my past mistakes, or even my marital status.  I learned that there’s a God in Heaven that loves me more than I can imagine and His words of me are true. I am chosen for greatness.  Greatness does not tolerate abuse. Greatness does not tolerate a cheating boyfriend. Greatness waits on God to uncover her future spouse. Greatness waits on the Lord for all that is lovely and pure and good. And that is why I sit here in peace, laughing without fear of my future, and you can, too. 

As an Organizational & Executive Strategist, Author, Professional Speaker, and with over 10 years of experience in Leadership, Administration, & Business, Dr. Sheika Square is one of this generations pioneering leaders and captivating speakers. Along with the knowledge to make solutions and resolutions elucidated, Dr. Sheika Square’s ability to penetrate her audience and move them to action is unparalleled. Her work as a financial consultant and mentor/leader in the fields of Business and Education adds to her ability to disseminate unique messages.

After over a decade in education, finance, and leadership, Dr. Square launched Priority Writing Approach, LLC in an attempt to foster the growth she desperately desires in others. Today, with fascinating and enlightening antidotes, Dr. Sheika Square speaks to groups on topics that offer insight into self and/or organizational maneuvering.

 

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2018-06-14T15:00:10+00:00 June 4th, 2018|Help For Single Moms, Sheika Square|0 Comments

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